Gender Inclusive Tibetan Terms for Family and Friends

We present these Tibetan terms for family and friends, along with gender-neutral ones, as a potential resource for the community. Using gender-neutral (also called gender-inclusive) terms and pronouns when referring to someone you don’t know well removes gendered assumptions from words. It is also a way of recognizing and respecting the diversity of relationships, gender identities, and expressions beyond restrictive societal assumptions.

It is important that straight allies and queer cisgender Tibetans fully embrace inclusive language and practices in everyday interactions and actively work to reduce gender stereotyping and bias. That will go a long way in ensuring a safe and supportive environment within our communities for people of all (a)gender and (a)sexuality. Every person should have the time and space to define their own identity and live authentically without fear of discrimination and persecution.